Suggested events
Bangladeshi
Paka Dekha (Formal Meeting)
Groom's family formally visits the bride's family. Sweets, tea, and conversation lead to the families' agreement on the union.
Gaye Holud (Turmeric Ceremony)
Turmeric paste is applied to the bride and groom in separate family gatherings — a purification ritual believed to give the couple a glowing complexion. Music, singing, and laughter dominate. Wear something you do not mind getting stained yellow.
Mehendi Night
Henna is applied to the bride's hands and feet, with music and celebration shared among the women of the family.
Akad Nikah (Marriage Contract)
The Islamic marriage contract signed before a Kazi (registrar) with two witnesses. Short prayers and Quranic recitation precede the signing.
Bou Bhat (Reception)
A formal reception hosted by the groom's family, introducing the new bride. A lavish spread of biryani, korma, mishti doi, and fish preparations awaits guests. Dress in your finest — it is the most public celebration of the wedding.