Introduction Ceremony (Ìdánilójú)
The groom's family arrives formally at the bride's family compound to declare their intention and ask for her hand. Elders exchange kolanut, palm wine, and speeches — expect vibrant aso-oke fabrics and a lively atmosphere. Guests are welcomed warmly and fed traditional dishes.
Traditional Engagement (Engagement & Bride Price)
The groom's family presents a list of gifts — fabrics, jewelry, drinks, and items specific to the bride's family. After prayers and blessings, the bride pours and serves palm wine to her new family, officially sealing the engagement. Dress in aso-ebi or traditional Yoruba attire for this celebration.
Nikah / Church Ceremony
A religious ceremony officiated by a Muslim imam or Christian pastor, depending on the couple's faith. Both families gather in prayer and witness the formal union. Smart or semi-formal attire is appropriate.
Owambe Reception
The Yoruba reception is a legendary celebration — expect live music (often a jùjú or afrobeats band), professional 'spraying' of money on the couple, and a full spread of jollof rice, egusi soup, and suya. Wear your most colourful aso-oke or evening wear and prepare to dance.
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